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What happens to your 401(k) or IRA when you die?

Retirement accounts generally follow beneficiary designations and governing terms rather than a will. Here is how spouse and non-spouse rules differ after the SECURE Act.

Key facts

  • Retirement accounts generally pass under the plan or custodial contract and a valid beneficiary designation; a will ordinarily does not override that designation, subject to applicable rights and governing terms.
  • For deaths in 2020 or later, most non-spouse beneficiaries must empty an inherited IRA or plan account by December 31 of the 10th year after the owner's death — the SECURE Act's 10-year rule.
  • If the original owner died on or after the required beginning date, beneficiaries subject to the 10-year rule generally must take annual RMDs in years 1–9 as well.
  • A surviving spouse who is the sole beneficiary has more options than other beneficiaries: treat or roll the account as their own, keep an inherited account under spousal rules, and, when the owner died before the required beginning date, use the 10-year rule.
  • Qualified plans such as 401(k)s may require a spouse's written consent before naming someone else as primary beneficiary; IRAs follow different default rules depending on marital status and state law.
  • Naming the estate generally makes the account payable to the probate estate; a blank or invalid designation follows the plan or custodian's default terms, which may or may not designate the estate.

The will that said "split equally" — and the 401(k) that did not

A widowed parent updates a will to divide everything equally among three adult children. The 401(k) still names only the oldest child on a form signed years earlier. Subject to the plan's terms and applicable law, the account follows that designation; the will does not divide it.

Retirement plans and IRAs generally follow their governing terms and valid beneficiary designations rather than a later will, subject to spousal rights, court orders, disclaimers, and other applicable law.

Why the beneficiary form beats the will

A will controls property that enters probate under applicable law. It does not retitle a 401(k), IRA, Roth IRA, 403(b), or similar account; those accounts follow their governing terms and valid beneficiary designations.

When the designation names a person, most accounts pass outside probate directly to that beneficiary. Naming the estate generally makes the account payable to the probate estate. If no valid beneficiary survives, the plan or custodial agreement's default terms control and do not necessarily name the estate.

The practical rule: treat beneficiary forms as part of the estate plan, not HR paperwork you filed once at hire. Audit them after marriage, divorce, births, deaths, and any trust funding — and keep them consistent with the rest of the plan.

401(k) vs IRA: same idea, different paperwork

Both account types pass at death through beneficiary designations and trigger required minimum distribution rules for heirs. The differences show up in who administers the account and what spousal protections apply.

For qualified plans covered by ERISA — most private-sector 401(k)s — federal law generally protects a spouse's interest in the account. Naming someone other than your spouse as primary beneficiary usually requires written consent acknowledging the effect of the election, witnessed by either a plan representative or a notary public. IRAs are not ERISA plans; spousal default rules instead depend on state law.

Distribution options for beneficiaries also come from the plan document for 401(k)s. The plan administrator should explain what heirs may do — roll to an inherited IRA, take a lump sum, or stretch under allowed rules. IRA custodians follow IRA rules under Publication 590-B. If the plan allows, rolling a 401(k) inheritance to an inherited IRA at an outside custodian is often how families consolidate accounts — but it must fit the plan's terms and the beneficiary's deadline.

Surviving spouses: three paths, different tax clocks

When the account owner dies in 2020 or later and the spouse is the sole primary beneficiary (determined by September 30 of the year after death, per IRS guidance), the spouse generally has more flexibility than any other heir.

Option one — treat the account as the spouse's own: roll the inherited assets into the spouse's IRA. RMDs then follow the spouse's age under current law: 73 for those born 1951–1958 and 75 for those born in 1960 or later. The statute ambiguously assigns both ages to people born in 1959; proposed regulations select 73, while the final rule reserves that birth year. Withdrawals before age 59½ may trigger the 10% early-distribution penalty because the account is no longer "inherited."

Option two — remain a beneficiary of an inherited IRA: the spouse can often delay beginning RMDs until the later of the year after death or the year the deceased would have reached RMD age if death occurred before that date. Inherited-IRA distributions are generally not subject to the 10% early-withdrawal penalty regardless of the spouse's age — which matters when the spouse is under 59½ and needs access.

Option three — when the owner died before the required beginning date, use the 10-year rule and empty the account by December 31 of the 10th year after death. SECURE 2.0 also authorizes a surviving-spouse election to be treated as the employee for RMD purposes; implementation rules remain pending, so follow current IRS guidance and plan terms.

Everyone else: the 10-year rule and eligible designated beneficiaries

For deaths in 2020 or later, most adult children, siblings, friends, and other non-spouse individual beneficiaries are subject to the SECURE Act's 10-year rule: the entire inherited account must be distributed by December 31 of the 10th calendar year after the year of death. There is no lifetime "stretch" for this group anymore.

If the original owner died before the required beginning date, the beneficiary may have flexibility on timing within the 10-year window — but the account must still be empty by the deadline. If the owner died on or after that date, IRS rules generally require annual RMDs in years 1 through 9 using the longer of the beneficiary's life expectancy or the owner's remaining life expectancy, with the remainder distributed by the end of year 10. A missed RMD can trigger a 25% excise tax on the shortfall. The rate is reduced to 10% when the corrective distribution is made from the applicable plan or a permitted aggregation group and the return reflecting the tax is filed within the statutory correction window; reasonable-cause relief may also be available.

Certain "eligible designated beneficiaries" keep more favorable options: a surviving spouse, the account owner's child who has not reached age 21, a disabled or chronically ill individual, and someone not more than 10 years younger than the owner. They may take distributions over life expectancy or elect the 10-year rule in some cases. The 10-year period generally begins when the child reaches 21.

Non-individual beneficiaries — estates, most trusts without look-through treatment, charities — follow different rules. Naming a trust requires a see-through trust that qualifies under IRC § 401(a)(9) if you want the trust to stretch or use the 10-year rule through individual beneficiaries; a generic family trust name on the form is a common planning mistake.

Inherited Roth accounts and the income-tax picture

Inherited Roth IRAs and Roth 401(k) balances are generally subject to the same beneficiary RMD framework as traditional accounts — including the 10-year rule for most non-spouse heirs after 2019 deaths. The difference is tax character: qualified Roth distributions are income-tax-free to the beneficiary.

For Roth accounts, the five-year rule still matters for earnings: if the Roth was less than five years old at death, some distributions of earnings may be taxable even to beneficiaries. The IRS treats inherited Roth IRAs separately — you cannot satisfy an inherited Roth's RMDs by withdrawing from a different Roth IRA you own unless that other account was also inherited from the same decedent.

Traditional 401(k) and IRA inheritances are generally taxable as ordinary income to the beneficiary in the year of distribution. Large inherited balances therefore carry a second planning question beyond "who inherits": when heirs take taxable withdrawals across the 10-year window or life-expectancy schedule.

What to fix while you are still the account owner

Pull every retirement account statement and confirm primary and contingent beneficiaries. Primary = first in line; contingent = if the primary dies first or disclaims. Blank or "estate" designations deserve a deliberate decision, not inertia.

Align forms with the will and any trust: if the trust should receive retirement assets for a child, the trust document and the beneficiary form must work together — usually with a lawyer who understands see-through trust rules. If the goal is outright gifts to individuals, name them directly.

After marriage, divorce, birth, or death, review each designation under the plan terms and applicable federal or state law; do not assume the form changed automatically. Keep copies of signed forms or online confirmations in the family vault.

Tell your executor and spouse where accounts live and who is named. The best designation fails if no one knows the account exists.

Questions worth asking before you file the form

Who is primary and contingent on every 401(k), IRA, Roth, and old rollover still open — and when did we last check?

Does our 401(k) need spousal consent to name children or a trust instead of a spouse?

If we name a trust, does the trust document qualify as a see-through trust under the tax rules?

For our heirs, will they face the 10-year rule, annual RMDs, or spousal rollover options — and do they know the tax timing?

Educational only: not tax, legal, or investment advice. Plan terms, SECURE Act elections, and state spousal rights vary; confirm current IRS guidance and work with a qualified professional before acting.

References

This guide is educational only and is not legal, tax, or investment advice. Laws vary by state and change over time; confirm current figures with the linked primary sources or a licensed professional in your state.

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